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of women empowerment, has come   Ahirwal. After southern Haryana, the   The idea to set up the marriage regis-
         out with  the  figures  of a  survey,   percentage of ‘sold brides’ is rampant   tration camp was supported by Kharkari
         conducted between July 2017 and   in Rohtak, Jind, Sonipat, Hisar, Kaithal,   wholeheartedly. In fact, in October itself,
         September 2019, of brides who have   Jhajjar, Yamuna Nagar, and Kurukshetra.   as many as 22 men from the village sat
         been trafficked to Haryana from   Such brides are found more in the homes   down to discuss how the camp could
         other states. His team of 125 volun-  of Jats, Yadavs, and Brahmins.  help in tracking trafficking survivors
         teers has, in fact, tracked down a    Additionally, the Ror caste of Atta   and rectify the image of the state outside.
         total of 1,30,000 brides, who have   Satta and Tigdi has been found to have a   When this reporter asked if they would
         been illegally married off to men   significant population of brides bought   participate in the exercise themselves,
         from Haryana.                 from other states. The district of Mewat   the group put their hands up enthusias-
                                       has also been found to have an increas-  tically and said, “Yes, we will!”
              s per the survey, over 60 cases   ing population of brides, who have been   Kharkari will now host the marriage
              have been identified in Me-  sold in the last decade.      registration camp, which will then be
         A wat alone, where most of the                                  organised in the villages of other districts.
         trafficked girls are from the southern   Support pours in         Speaking to the reporter, Ram Singh,
         states of India. According to Jaglan,   In addition to the campaign, a marriage   who is over 80 years old, says that some
         Gurugram and Revari were the first   registration camp will be organised in   men have brought shame to the society
         places in Haryana where the people   Haryana  in  December,  which would    by buying brides through illegal means
         bought brides from other states.   allow couples to formally register their   and are treating them with disrespect
           Initially, the brides were bought   marriages. The camp would help in iden-  and torture. “This should stop!” reiterated
         from West Bengal, but now people   tifying cases where the brides might   Singh, “if our men want to marry outside
         from Haryana have started buy-  have been trafficked. The registration of   Haryana then they should go through
         ing girls from Bihar, Uttar Pradesh,   marriages, involving sold brides, will be   the customs and legal formalities, but not
         Assam, Madhya Pradesh and Utta-  greatly beneficial for such women com-  through illegal means.”
         rakhand. From the last three years,   ing from other states, giving them an   “Initially, we didn’t know how im-
         the trend of buying the brides from   equal place in the society, besides pre-  portant it is to register your marriage
         Punjab has also started.      venting cases of unfair practices where   but, now as I know, first thing I will do is
           The trend of buying brides from   some brides are ousted by their families   to register my own marriage. I even en-
         other states began in the area of   on trivial issues.          courage all the couples, both young and
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                                        • Action starts  Preparations for the upcoming
                                         marriage registration camp are in full swing




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