The cost of silence: Why every household must write a will

Across India, families spend decades building assets but hesitate to write a Will. When death arrives without one, these assets often become a bone of contention and the very reason families fall apart, writes Dr. CS Adv. Mamta Binani

By Dr. CS Adv. Mamta Binani

In Indian homes, conversations about property are common. Conversations about death are not. And somewhere between these two silences lies a document that most families never create — a Will.

Across the country, families spend decades building assets: a house purchased after years of savings, a small plot of land in the hometown, jewellery passed through generations, bank deposits, mutual funds, and retirement savings. These are not just financial assets; they are symbols of security and legacy. Yet, when the person who built them passes away without leaving a Will, these assets often become the very reason families fall apart.

As someone who has worked closely with legal and governance frameworks, I have seen a pattern repeat itself across households, regardless of wealth. A parent assumes their children will “understand” how assets should be divided. A spouse believes nominations in bank accounts are enough. Families believe they are too small, too simple, or too united to require formal documentation.

Unfortunately, the law does not function on assumptions.

When a person dies without a Will, their assets are distributed according to statutory succession laws such as the Hindu Succession Act, 1956 or other applicable inheritance laws. These laws are structured, but they cannot capture the personal realities of every family — who cared for ageing parents, who financially supported the household, or which child needs greater support. The law follows rules; families live through relationships.

The result is often conflict.

Across India’s courts, thousands of inheritance disputes remain pending. Siblings who once shared a home find themselves across legal benches. Properties remain locked in litigation for years. Bank accounts freeze. Businesses stagnate. The emotional cost of these disputes is often far greater than the financial value of the assets themselves.

And almost always, the conflict begins with the same sentence: “There was no Will.”

What makes this situation more troubling is that creating a Will is neither complex nor expensive. Indian law does not require elaborate documentation. A Will simply needs to clearly express a person’s intentions regarding their assets, be signed by the testator, and be witnessed by two individuals. Registration is optional, though it may add credibility. The document can even be changed multiple times during a person’s lifetime as circumstances evolve.

In other words, the barrier is not legal complexity — it is awareness and mindset.

Many people also assume that nominations in bank accounts or insurance policies solve the problem of inheritance. In reality, a nominee often acts only as a custodian of the asset, holding it on behalf of the legal heirs. Without a Will clarifying the true distribution of property, nominations alone cannot prevent disputes.

India today is witnessing an unprecedented expansion of household wealth. More families own property than ever before. Financial investments, mutual funds, retirement plans, and digital assets are becoming common. The modern Indian household has far more complexity in its asset structure than previous generations.

Yet our approach to inheritance planning has not evolved at the same pace.

In many developed countries, writing a Will is considered a basic element of financial planning — as routine as buying insurance or opening a bank account. It is seen not as a morbid exercise, but as a responsible step toward protecting family stability.

India must move toward the same culture.

A Will allows individuals to make thoughtful decisions about their legacy. Parents can ensure fairness among children. Guardians can be appointed for minors. Trusted individuals can be named as executors to manage assets responsibly. Even charitable contributions and social causes can be included.

Most importantly, a Will removes uncertainty.

In the absence of clarity, speculation fills the space. And speculation often breeds conflict.

There is also a strong case for wider public awareness on this subject. Financial institutions, legal bodies, and policymakers can work together to promote estate planning as a normal household practice. Simplified processes, awareness campaigns, and digital registries could significantly reduce the number of inheritance disputes that burden families and courts alike.

But even before policy catches up, the responsibility lies with individuals.

Every parent who has worked to build a home, every professional who has created savings for the future, and every family that values harmony must ask a simple question:

If something were to happen tomorrow, would my family know exactly what I wanted?

If the answer is uncertain, the time to act is now.

A Will is not merely a legal document. It is a final act of clarity and care for the people we leave behind.

And in today’s India, it is a responsibility no household can afford to postpone.